You are the change
Salut mes '“Tartes à la rhubarbe”!
Hope you’re doing in this month of November 2022! I don’t know about you, but we are pretty fortunate with the weather here in NYC.
Something I’ve heard all my life (and I used to say that ages ago myself) is that people are always waiting to see the change in order to change… A friend of mine, lately had an argument with her man over the same thing again and again, but she strongly refuses to be the change for the sake of her relationship. She told me:" WHY do I have to change first? It’s not fair! He is wrong, so HE needs to change, BUT I can’t stand that situation anymore…!”
Guuuuuurl, if you want to see the change, you have to be the change. It is SO NOT about him! It is about you, how you feel inside, how this situation is making you feel. You can NOT expect people/ Life to change because you do not feel okay. Let me tell you that it does NOT work like that. Nobody is here to make your life easier but yourself.
If you expect the world to change for your little self, you are just a fool! Sorry but not sorry to be that straight forward. You are not the center of anything but your own. Giving the power to someone else to change your life is like not taking any responsibility for yourself. It is rejecting the adulthood that you are swimming in (you didn’t choose to be an adult but here you are!)
And it is the same with any aspect of your life. If you don’t like, for example, how you are managing your business, your finances, or you are just not where you would like to be, YOU have the power to change it! It doesn’t mean that it is going to be easy. Change is painful, first of all because it crushes your ego (and we know that ego is fear). You will destroy all those weird beliefs of yours, you will have to accept that the way you were doing/ thinking wasn’t the best option. You will have to trust your guts (which you might not have done so much in your life…), trust you intuition and trust Life (even if we heard that Life is a b*tch). But your intuition is YOUR GIRL!!!! She will NEVER let you down!
And if you don’t believe any of what I just wrote, just ask yourself: '“I’ve been doing this all my life, I’ve been wanting to see a change before I change and it NEVER worked out… What about trying something different?”
It is INSANE to keep doing the things that do NOT work!
If it is not working, try something new: and it has to start with you^^
That’s all for me kiddos.
Be safe out there, stay balanced and keep sipping that miracle nectar: WATER.
Peace n Kiss.
