Give Up/ Let go
Bonjour my beautiful peacocks. Hope you are doing as well as a clean showered butt!I am writing live right now and I don't really know if I should do a "give up vs let go" article or "when is it a good time to give up/let go?".................... Hmmmmmm I am still debating..........................Ok, let's do a "give up" vs "let go".I don't have the absolute truth, but I have mine, so that I am giving you MY opinion, and if you don't agree... Well, you are WRONG!!! (joke)I am personally not a quitter so I don't not like to give up. Giving up, to me, is not going until the end; knowing that you could have done more. Now, the problem is that you can pretty much always do more to get what you want until you get it. Now, there is an ethical aspect. You HAVE TO set boundaries! First of all for yourself, because you should not get things at any costs! You have to stay healthy in your choices, your fights, your actions. You also have to set boundaries on the other side because the goal is not to have guilt either end up in jail (or HP). Giving up is trying once or twice and because it is not working the way you want, you just give up. This is LAZYNESS. Then you also have the case of trying millions of time and it is still not working because you have tried billions of times without trying to change your approaches either your methods, so you give up. Sorry but I call that study and immature!!!!! You can't expect having different results while having the same behavior... Come on! Or because you just started to change, you want immediate results... Let's be serious here!In business or if you are in charge of your family, you know you can give up.NOW, sometimes thing are just not working (yet). Sometimes it requires some times alone to mature on it sides (and you to mature on yours). Letting go is when you are not at the same place in your life, heart, mind and it just becomes ridiculous to pursuit. Very often, it happens that what we want is just not meant to be, not good for us, and after doing everything that we could, it is just time to bow out with elegance.Letting go is about acceptance, about self-respect, self-esteem (not ego! Ego is for giving uppers!), self-love. It is knowing that better is on its way, or already there. Letting go is about trusting yourself and the Universe, God, The Source or whatever you believe in. Letting go is also about maturity? When you let you, you hold ZERO grudge, you are at peace, you are love. It sounds relationship related but it is everything related: business, friendship, love, plans, family related.That's all for me kiddos. To summarize, quitting is an ego thing which is a very low vibration (close to fear which is the lowest one), while letting go is a self-love and mature action which a way higher vibration close to love which is highest one.If this is something you struggle with, I can definitely guide you and coach you: http://www.lyapouleyy.com/wcc/Don't forget to drink plenty of water and practice self-compassion (without playing the victim. Thank you)Peace n Kiss
